Women require other women. When this environmental requirement is satisfied, their bodies produce oxytocin, "the mechanism by which love and affection positively affect health" (Marnia). Western civilization's residential and city planners, for lack of this fact, have left us with a legacy of isolated structures, apparently optimized for the needs of the male occupant, or the legal or economic convenience of the developer, while almost perfectly optimizing the social isolation and disconnectedness of its occupants.
If a woman's production of oxytocin evokes feelings of contentment, reduced anxiety, calmness, and security (Wikipedia), and if these qualifiers describe the normal baseline of a healthy (tribal?) woman, then the logical corollary is that the suppression of oxytocin due to the social isolation of disconnected living must also increase a woman's feelings of discontent, anxiety, fear, and insecurity.
In other words, the legacy of male-oriented residential and town planning has been producing varying degrees of crazy in our women. The law of unintended consequences strikes again.
Residential needs defined by men
A baseline for modern home conveniences for men might include access to his refrigerator, man-cave, big-screen TV, or getaway vehicle.
If women require other women, then by modern standards of convenience, they should have free and convenient access to other women. How free and convenient? I would measure the distance between a man and his refrigerator.
The modern woman's convenience baseline is miles apart from her male counterpart. She must leave the home for play dates and luncheons (because she is isolated at home), grocery shopping (because the dysfunctional home does not produce food), getting money (because her community does not produce money, and is lent to her instead by far-away banks for a fee called inflation), and so on.
Now as most people know, when a woman's needs are not being met, everyone (and I mean everyone) suffers. Therefore, we should work on the solution with all of the resources at our disposal.
Female coping mechanisms
11% of American women now take anti-depressant drugs (compared with 5% of men). Countless others turn to TV and social media to satisfy basic social needs. Some unknown percentage phase in and out of some degree of crazy, both fueling the cliche, and explaining why Google finds over 400,000 pages containing that exact phrase. If you have never listened to women speaking openly on the subject, or if you disagree with the premise, then this blog is not for you. Otherwise, the existence of the problem is a foregone conclusion.
Actionable Alternatives
Since the first wave of the back-to-the-land movement of the 1970's, various communities have plunged headlong into researching more communal living alternatives. These efforts have been called by various names, such as intentional communities, hippie/Brethren/Hutterite/Mormon/sect compounds, and co-housing. Many operate on meager finances, and on the fringes of society, which on the one hand provides the freedom to perform the important research, but on the other hand requires the observer to glean the lessons learned without getting distracted by the conditions of poverty and outright economic failure.
All of that is about to change. According to John Robb, there are tens of trillions of dollars in investment capital currently sitting on the sidelines. That money will not be deployed in financial markets, because they have become casinos. It will not be spent on treasuries, because the government is approaching default, and because treasures are "a triple threat to your capital", as Doug Casey likes to say. And the money will not be spent on real estate, which is in freefall, and designed for a bygone era of farming or "happy motoring", as James Kunstler would say.
John Robb's central message lately is that an investment in a Resilient Community is the only investment worth having. If his message gains traction, and if those tens of trillions of dollars are deployed in new Resilient Community development, then that would be enough money to fund 1 million separate communities, with each one capitalized with $10 million dollars!
And that is only what would get the ball rolling, because some folks think that the real action will be in the 2nd generation of new communities (2025+), that will use new open-source monies to accomplish whatever needs doing, which will probably make the current International Communities Directory look like child's play.
Investment Implications
As capital begins moving into community development, I see developments starting to polarize into two distinct types:
If bubbles and fractional reserve currencies are a part of the problem, then so are the projects that depend on them and perpetuate their existence. Therefore, it is time to move on.
Conclusion
As the early stages of the present spiritual and cultural shift unfolds, the subject of resilient and self-reliant communities is finally receiving much needed attention. A common theme is the degree to which existing communities can be retrofitted for sustainability, resilience, and meeting the needs of its inhabitants, instead of merely its investors.
If current conventions such as tract-selling and isolated structures are "an embodiment of the psycho-social disintegration of society" (Alexander, Ishikawa, Silverstein), then the subject takes on an entirely new dimension, and crystallizes which development models have the best long-term upside potential, and the most meaningful applicability to current generations of humanity.

Michele— irreplaceable soul-mate, mother to my 4 daughters, and crazy as a bat when placed in solitary confinement,
including suburbia, a flat in Europe, and a lonely midwest farm. Thank God when friends and sisters come
to visit. The bottle of wine is a Mad Housewife Cab. I wonder, is that glass half-empty, or half-full?
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